SEX:Our 20s Rock

"The only thing better than sex is more sex."

     I once read somewhere that we're at the peak of our physical/sexual attractiveness in our twenties. 

The article said that we'll never be as appealing and energetic again like we are in our twenties.

Immediately after reading it, I thought to myself that we really should sow our wild oats during that 

decade of our optimal sexual appeal and energy. Obviously, I believe this article as by our thirties many 

of us are already showing signs of crow feet and parentheses on our faces. When it comes to energy 

level, we see how many athletes start to wane by their thirties and often retire from their sport by their

late thirties. Similarly, we lose the youthful sexual energy of our twenties.

     This is why we should have a lot of sexual fun in our twenties. You'll have those days to remember 

later on when you battle the bulge, double chins and decreased energy. You can think back on (and 

😁) when you remember the college boyfriend who had amazing stamina or the bootylicious girl-

friend who put the "come" in comely. Be smart about it though as STDs and unwanted pregnancies

are not imaginary.


Comments

  1. UnknownAugust 16, 2017 at 5:49 PM

    LOL Strange but true!

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    1. BeverleyAugust 19, 2017 at 8:51 PM

      Our youth and energy wane too fast and change a lot of things.

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  2. ChrisJAugust 16, 2017 at 6:51 PM

    Peaking in your twenties? I would think that somewhere in your thirties would be the optimal period of sexual enjoyment, stamina and okayness with your body. Worked for me. Things didn't change for me until I hurt my foot and stopped running/exercising. I have always thought that "women" were more attractive than "girls". There is a lot to be said when it comes to maturity. I would think that women would feel the same about men. When I think back to when I enjoyed sex with my wife the most, it was not in my twenties. It was great in my twenties but it sex then was like a new car or some other new toy. Being able to go at it 5 times in one hour was great but by the fifth time it was more work then pleasure. In my thirties, forties and fifties, I am more satisfied and thankful that I have someone that enjoys having sex with "me".

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    1. BeverleyAugust 19, 2017 at 8:58 PM

      I see your point, ChrisJ. In our thirties and forties, there's more maturity and skill involved. We have a better knowledge of our partner. That's the advantage of getting older. Our twenties have the advantage of giving us more energy and time to indulge in sex. Many of us look our best in our twenties so there's all that sex appeal going on too.

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